the flirting woman

You may be wondering why some ladies are still single at say 30 years and above. Majority in this category would want to cover their plight with the cliche: "I want to be a successful career woman". Truth is, no one is against that but the fact remains, some ladies have been zoning their potential husbands for far too long.

For many ladies, it is fair to say,"i am waiting for the right man" but let me hasten to add that, it is as unfair as delaying the life goals of yourself or the very "right man" you seek even though he might be pestering and pressuring you to be bonded in love to him and yet you keep him in a zone; luckily on his side, a friend zone or probably, "a crush zone".

Funny enough, when these goals set by this young man approaches "expiry time", and he finds solace elsewhere just to so life must not come to a standstill because of one woman, say you, you hear expression such as, "men would always be men".

My dear ladies, the argument is that, even men, right from Adam, have never been selective and choosy as in the case of women. The man is always content if and only if the woman knows what she is about.

Come to think of it, he is going to be the "man" of the home, which is to say that he is going to be providing everything for the entire family including that of the woman and his, alongside what you both would have built together.

Would he be that energetic at the age you would have preferred him to wait for, to discharge his duties accordingly?

Would he be able to raise the children like you'd want it at the age you are expecting him to wait for, though strong but busily making sure the needs of the entire home are not met daily?

Would he be faithful enough to make you sexually satisfied just when he was so faithful from the onset and yet you "doubted" his seriousness just for you to be to achieve "life goals" and now he feels you can be questionable when "you're ready for him?"

This questions the following assumptions;

a) He is just like one of those men, let me play hard for some time.

b) He is not my type of man, i am still waiting for my Prince Charming.

c) After all, if he truly loves me, he would wait for me, no matter how long. True love never dies.

My dear ladies, pick him up and make him the Prince Charming you want him to be, because even Queen Elizabeth worked her own love story out.

Don't think delaying him is the best test of his love for you, especially for a first-time lover of yourself. You might be causing a lot more harm than good.

Every man is capable of anything just as a woman is, no man is bad unless you don't see the good in him or probably you always choose to see the bad in him instead.

To end it all, men are always reactive and sometimes, daring, to my ladies, your reception you give them would merit his posture towards you in the style you ask for.